I have just been given the Answer. The Key for a happy and prosperous life:
We have to show unbending actions, laser focused thoughts, unrelenting positive emotions, ability to NEVER give up our resolve, toward our goals/ desires, no matter what! If we can PROVE our determination toward our very specific, detailed goals, and with unconditional gratitude towards our Creator, nothing can ultimately stop us.
To define PROVE: You have to show that you have overcome the obstacles and challenges in your present situations. This is not a form of running away, it is instead, a "test" that you have overcome, and no longer have any "buttons" that can impeed further personal progress. This makes you "ready" for the next "step" in your evolutionarily advancement. You can no longer be "controlled" by these elements. Your freedom has advanced. You are now "comfortable" with what and where you are, but you desire to "be" and "do" and "help" more.