Our interpretation of any event shapes our reality.

The Journey

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Our interpretation of any event shapes our reality. If we attach the wrong meaning to that event, it can be the start of an illusion that will cause problems for you until you realize the mistake and choose to stop it. 

  Underneath all worries is a fear of something. If we can identify and let go of this fear that is blocking all our efforts toward perfect health, prosperity, happiness, our life goal and purpose, finding true love, and more, we will attain all of these desires. 

  We can manifest what we desire if we Focus on that desire, Believe we can have it, and are hungry for it, without being needy for it. Neediness pushes away what we want to bring into our lives. We also easily manifest our greatest fears if we worry about them obsessively. Worrying is like praying for what we don't want. We manifest into our lives the things we most desire and the things we most fear, or a watered down version of the two. Those two energies collide and we end up with a  diluted version of the two combined. 

  A key element to attracting what you want into your life is gratitude. Whether we realize it or not, if we have enough food, water, shelter, air and sunlight to keep our body alive, then were rich. 

  If you can't see yourself as being rich even now, it's going to be hard to manifest more money into your life. If you see yourself as poor or even middle-class, then you're going to push away or dismiss anything that conflicts with that identity. One of the most important things you can do to manifest Abundance in your life is to start seeing yourself as rich. Not pretending to be rich, while deep down thinking you're not. But, really seeing and believing that it's true right now. It is great to be rich in friendships and in Spirit, but we are talking here about financial wealth.

Think about how much God has already provided for us. We are all rich, but we are mostly blind to it.

  Here's how to own the feeling of being rich even more. Every time you pay a bill, every time you use the electricity or water, or drive your car, or hug your family members, thank God for all these and more things that God has given you the ability to pay for and to love. 

  Seeing yourself as rich is a powerful identity. As you retrain your mind, you open to greater appreciation and resourcefulness. This is part of an overall mind-set shift to massive appreciation. 

  You can always find what's not right. If you are looking for it, you can find it easily. You can also look for what's amazing. If you train your eyes to see what's remarkable, what's special, what's a miracle, then you will find miracles.

Gratitude is a great place to be in. It feels amazing and it's magnetically attractive to more of the good things we want. Start adding in prayers of gratitude ,in advance, for all the things you're looking forward to having in your life.



You already have what you want.

It may not feel like it, but whatever you want, you already have. And by letting go of the feeling that you lack something, you can start to find that you already have it, or at least some of it. 

  The human body needs to be 98% healthy just to live. So if  you're alive, then your body is sooo healthy. The fact that you are alive means that so much is working right. To speed up healing what we want to do is focus on what's already working great, and be really appreciative of that. And be grateful in advance that more good health is coming our way. When you practice gratitude for what's working great, your health abundance can increase substantially.

  The body is a self-healing organism. It naturally wants to heal itself. But if something isn't healing, there could be a blockage or constriction of the flow of healing energy to that part of your body. That constriction is usually some sort of emotional pain that's somehow caught up in the injury, guilt, shame, anger are some of them. 

  Even if the health issue may not heal, it's better to make peace with the way things are than to be angry with the situation, which may then open up the healing process. When we're in pain, we tend to get angry, but sending hate toward hurt doesn't help. Send love instead. There are blessings in everything.

  We never know for sure why things happen, but if you let go and allow life to unfold in its own divine way, you'll be able to see the blessings in your pain. If you look hard enough, the blessings are always there. Look for the gifts. See the gifts and miracles in everything, and you will be able to manifest and achieve more of what you want. 



  

Success Technique

 To get what you want in life, you have to be clear about what that is. To change your life and help you achieve anything you want there are 5 steps:

1. Clarify your direction.

2. Strategize your actions.

3. Upgrade your skills.

4. Optimize your environment.

5. Master your psychology.


To clarify your direction, it's time to set goals. What do you want? What would your life look like right now? In the next 3 months, 6 months, 12 months...? You must design you own life and not just leave it to a default. You must have hopes and dreams that you take serious enough to not give up until you achieve them.

  Get clear about what you want, a new car, house, job, love, etc? 


Reaching your goals is inevitable if your willing to keep taking the necessary actions to get there and work through the "inner" stuff that comes up along the way. When you become excited enough about your future and what's possible, you can make miracles happen. So let yourself just dream for a little while. And think Big!  Now write down your goals and dreams. Don't worry about how you will make them happen. 

  Create a vision board that illustrates your goals and dreams. Make sure the pictures resonate with you, that you are happy, excited, or feel a sense of peace when you look at them. Your feelings play a huge part in Manifesting your goals and dreams. Put it up where you will see it every day.

  When you know where you are headed, there's a sense of purpose that can be far greater and way more attention grabbing than the problems of the past.


2. Strategize your actions. 

What do you think you might need to do to make this happen? Pick the top goal and focus on it, making a plan to achieve it. Then ask yourself, If I could break this goal down into three major chunks what would they be?

  1. Research. What will this goal need  in terms of money, time, and physical preparation? Perhaps get advice.  

  2. Get ready. Buy all the stuff needed. Do the physical preparation. Recruit help if needed.

  3. Execute. Just do it. You will find that if your desire really isn't attached to this, it may be time to choose another goal.


If your goal is about relationships:

  1. Get clear about the kind of person I want to be with and the kind of relationship I'd like to have with that person.

  2. Work on myself to release any fears, doubts, insecurities, and inadequacies that would keep me from feeling like I deserve the relationship I want, or prevent me from being able to naturally attract the kind of partner I'd like to be with.

  3. Go to the places the type of person I'd like to attract would hang out. Show up with an open heart, with confidence, having fun, and unattached to what happens  and how it happens, let the universe unfold naturally. 

  Now ask yourself, If I could break down my most desired goal into three major chunks what would they be? Then write them down.


3. Upgrading your skills. 

What skills we would you need to learn or improve? 


4. Optimize your environment.

The degree of challenge or ease involved in getting what you want in life is greatly influenced by your environment. There is a saying, we become like the five people we spend the most time with, or the average income of your five closest friends is most likely the same as yours. So if you want to make a change, one of the ways to optimize your environment is to start looking for friends who most resemble the way you want to be. You can optimize your environment by adding to it or subtracting from it.

  You can also optimize your physical environment by cleaning things up and tossing out all the old junk in your life. You might be surprised that many items hold emotional memories, and we hold on to those things even if the memory was negative. But by letting go of those things, we can free ourselves up in ways unimaginable. 

  When you change on the inside, the whole world changes on the outside. 

Now list five things you can do to add or subtract from your environment that will help you achieve your goal.


5. Master your Psychology.

Our minds and emotions, in the forms of doubt and fears, often present the biggest obstacles to our turning our problems into opportunities, and our opportunities into the exciting things we want in our lives. Here is a tool for eliminating doubts and fears. Eliminate the feeling of being stuck, so that you can create the life of your dreams. The more at peace you become, and the more you surrender your fears, the higher the likelihood that you will have the life of your dreams. Stay the course. Do the work. Face your fear. 







 


Peace Technique

We attract situations into our lives that help us grow by gaining experience and getting stronger emotionally. We become stronger emotionally by facing our fears, feeling them fully, and moving on. If we don't resolve our emotional issues, we keep attracting repeated performances; similar relationships with the same kinds of partners, getting fired from multiple different jobs, having the same argument with others, over and over again.


Usually when we're having a problem with a situation, there's something about the situation we don't like or are worried about. Most people respond by either trying to do something about it, or run away from it by distracting themselves.  They choose different types of addictions, a numbing agent of choice, instead of facing the emotions involved. These neglected feelings are never fully buried. When we're running from our feelings, it's because we are feeling them to a certain extent. That's what causes the trying to run from them. Yet as hard as it can be to feel these emotions, it's so much easier if we understand they won't hurt or feel uncomfortable forever. The energy of emotions is like a storm. It runs its course and then is gone. But only if we let ourselves feel these emotions fully.

It's also easier to feel emotions when we realize there's no logic to them, that we don't need to get tangled up in making sense if them. We just need to feel them, accept that they make us feel a bit crazy, and know that the pain, discomfort, and craziness will pass. Young kids are more open and honest. They haven't yet learned to hide their emotions. They simply react, feel the emotion, and let it go.

Sometimes nothing but the time to let things go will work. 


Sometimes very small things can cause huge upsets inside. This is because underneath the situation you feel deeply that you're not good enough, and you don't want to face that feeling. Yet if you were to look at that deep and face that feeling of pain and fear, it would release fully, completely and permanently. And then the next time the same situation occurs you would  no longer have a button to push and you would not even notice it at all. Also you would stop attracting situations that will push a button, because you aren't energetically manifesting that old pattern.


Usually most people don't tune in to their feelings at the deepest levels. Usually it's just "You made me feel...  and " How could you be so selfish? "  We blame others, project onto others, because feeling the truth is painful, and were wired to avoid pain. This cycle of avoidance and blaming others repeats until we heal it, and release it. 


Emotions may affect physical healing. If you have a health issue you want to heal, it's common to layer on top of that issue all sort of things that can make healing even harder. The more you can let go of the emotional anguish of having a health problem, the faster and easier your body can heal. If you let go of the shame, anger, blame, and so on, you increase your body's capacity for healing. 


Sometimes the hardest thing to let go of is the "neediness" around healing. If you can make peace with not healing, you're more likely to heal. Making peace with not healing doesn't mean you give up trying things that can help. It just means you're desiring to heal but not attached to it. 


The truth is that not everything is healable. 


You may ask, "What can I do?  Should I do this or that? The thoughts are running wild, trying to figure things out. Unfortunately, the mind can't solve the real issue, fear.


All our fears are fears of feelings. Either physical feelings or emotional feelings like shame or humiliation. Instead of trying to solve problems using logic, the first thing  to do is to make peace with our biggest fears. 


Using the Peace technique, you can release your fears often in a matter of minutes, sometimes even seconds.  With this technique we invite the feelings to be felt fully. We go into the eye of the hurricane where those feelings are most intense. We surrender and let the feeling we've zoomed in on completely take over and run its course. 


The best time to work this technique is right when you're feeling something come up. You will need 15-20 minutes to be by yourself, free of distractions, and then sit somewhere quiet and follow the steps below until you come to a place of peace. You'll be amazed at how quickly you can work through those feelings and release the blocks that are getting in the way of your living your best life.


The Peace Technique:

1. Find the Feeling. All feelings manifest in some part of your body. Think about the situation that's upsetting you, and notice where in your body the feeling is the strongest. 


2. Give It Attention. Instead of distracting yourself from the feeling, or trying to mentally solve the problem, just be present to the physical sensation of the feeling in your body.


3. Be Unconditionally Loving or Accepting. This feeling is here. It's a fact. It won't be here forever. For now,  as long as it's here anyway, accept it. And if possible, send that feeling love.


4. Focus on the Eye of the Storm. Inside the feeling in your body, there's area if greatest intensity. Put your attention on that area and stay present to it, in an unconditional way. 


5. Let It Breathe. As you give the feeling attention, it may shift in some way. It might become more intense, or less intense. It might move to different parts of your body. Stay with it and let it run its course. It's like an oil candle; the fuel needs oxygen to burn, but once the fuel's burned out its gone. Your attention is the oxygen and the feeling is the fuel. We never know how much fuel is in there. That's why we never know how long this technique will take. Sometimes seconds. Sometimes minutes. Sometimes several hours on rare occasions. 


6. Get To Peace. Stay with the feeling. Let it live, breathe, and grow. Let it move around if it needs to. Keep your attention on the most intense part in an unconditionally loving way. And eventually, you'll be at peace. Usually it takes 5-10 minutes. Sometimes faster, sometimes a bit longer.


7. Enjoy Permanent Peace. After the feeling that's troubling you has run its hours, you'll be left feeling neutral. That's peace. You might also be filled with joy or love. 


To make sure you've cleared the negative feelings completely, think about the situation, problem, or fear that was bothering you. Notice whether you feel anything other than peace, love or joy. If you do, repeat this process. Sometimes there are several layers that need to be processed. However in most cases you are free of the fear or anguish that was causing unease and keeping you from being at your best. This is the place from which you want to make decisions or take action. This place of peace is where you can achieve your highest potential, where you feel permanent peace around a situation that may have totally owned you in the past 


This technique is a very powerful and valuable way to transform your entire life into something wonderful.











The Journey

The Miracle Technique

The combination of repetition, Peace technique and the Miracle technique pays off. Not only can we overcome a fear by having the courage to face it but we can also transcend our fears so we feel only peace, love, joy or simply s neutral feeling. 

Peace is inevitable in any situation if you want it. There isn't a situation where you can't get to peace- a past hurt, a past heartbreak, a current upset, or physical fears. As long as you are willing to do the work and surrender to the fear, you will get there. 


We are not afraid of circumstances or activities. We are afraid of feelings. It takes courage to feel those feelings. Even if you just feel the fear and don't do what you are afraid of, you are being courageous. Using the Miracle and or the Peace techniques you can then do whatever you were afraid of doing, but from a place of peace. These techniques will help you face your feelings and heal your issues so you can let in more abundance, more flow, more prosperity. 


We all know that we can always do a better job when we are calm. If you are relaxed, playful, focused and in the moment you always able to do everything much better. Feel the fear and do it anyway. 


Knowing why you are afraid doesn't really matter, it's a distraction. And there is a difference between overcoming fear and eliminating it.


***Never forget this: 


Perception is consistent.

What you see reflects your thinking.

And your thinking but reflects

Your CHOICE of what you want to see!

Your values are determiners of this,

For what you value

You must want to see,

Believing what you see is really there!

No one can see a world his mind 

Has not accorded value.

And no one can fail

To look upon what he

Believes he wants!


Love and perception go hand and hand. Fear obscures in darkness what is there. 


Make It Happen:

Choose Positive Brain Washing. Be vigilant of the messages you put into your brain. Everything in your world has a subconscious effect. Everything! TV, radio, books, sights, etc. And it is the subconscious mind that creates your reality. The subconscious mind is greatly influenced by your thoughts and your intense feelings. By adding these to visualizations and continuously "living" these beliefs, brings conviction to them,  until they occur in real time. 

  Miracle Technique:

1. Use daily repetitions of these statements that follow, to build a strong foundation in your subconscious mind, from which you will strengthen on an hourly basis every day. This will help determine the speed at which you achieve your goals.

2. Use one set of affirmations, in sequence, daily. Notice how deeply it penetrates into your consciousness. Repeat if necessary, the following day.


Miracles are seen in light.

I cannot see in darkness. Let the light

Of holiness and truth light up my mind,

And let me see the innocence within.


Miracles are seen in light

The body's eyes do not perceive the light.

But I am not a body. What am I?


I am as God created me. 

I will remain forever as I was.

Created by the Changeless like Himself,

And I am one with Him, and He with me.


You are one Self with me,

United with our Creator in this Self,

I honor you because of what I am, 

And what He is,  Who loves us both as one.


I am Spirit.


Spirit am I, a holy Son of God,

Free of all limits, safe and healed and whole,

Free to forgive, and free to save the world.


I am the Son of God. No body can

Contain my spirit, nor impose on me

A limitation God created not.


My function here is to forgive the world

For all the errors I have made. For thus

Am I released from them with all the world.


God's Will for me is perfect happiness.

And I can suffer but from the belief

There is another will apart from His.


I share my Father's Will for me, His Son.

What He has given me is all I want.

What He has given me is all there is.


Let me remember love is  happiness,

And nothing else brings joy. And so I choose

To entertain no substitute for love.


***I am mistaken when I think I can

Be hurt in any way. I am God's Son,

Whose Self rests safely in the Mind of God.


To give and to receive are one in truth.

I will receive what I am giving now.


I am as God created me. His Son

Can suffer nothing. And I am His Son.


I am as God created me.


Sickness is a defense against the truth.

I will accept the truth of what I am,

And let my mind be wholly healed today.


I have forgotten what I really am.

For I mistook my body for myself.

Sickness is a defense against the truth.

But I am not a body. And my mind

Cannot attack. So I can not be sick.


When I am healed I am not healed alone.

And I would share my healing with the world, 

That sickness may be banished from the mind

Of God's one Son, who is my only Self.









Perception

 Some people believe the world is hard, set in stone "People don't change, this is the way things are". If you want to change your life, you can't live in your rock reality. Some people believe that life can change, the world can change but it's hard and slow. Success is possible, but getting there can be a long, difficult, slow road. Some people believe that the world is like water. People can change, in fact, everyone is going to change. Some more than others, some faster than others. Everything changes, and you can get everything you want. Everything is possible. Success is highly likely, maybe inevitable. Life is filled with Miracles and can change in an instant.


The way to put this into action is to surrender your attachment to a specific outcome. Keep surrendering to a Higher Outcome. Live in the present momentot, moment to moment. The mind can always race around trying to figure things out. But the mind isn't where Intuition, I guidance usually comes from. To access that guidance, getting centered and present is the key.


The way to put this into action is to surrender your attachment to a specific outcome. Keep surrendering to a Higher Outcome. Live in the present moment, moment to moment. The mind can always race around trying to figure things out. But the mind isn't where Intuition, or guidance usually comes from. To access that guidance, getting centered and present is the key. 


Become present in each moment. Notice and appreciate everything. Just notice. When you are in that state of being present, it is easier to hear your Intuition, to see, feel, and know.


When your in the world of water, you are persuadable, you are open to other ways of thinking, and to expansion. To get to that fluid place, you need to let go of the need to be "right". The key is if you want to influence others, be influencable. If you want to persuade others, be persuadable. Look for the value in what other people might be saying. Ask yourself, in what ways might they be right? 


When you are in a discussion, notice the place you are coming from, rock, or water? Do others need to be wrong for you to be right? Or, if they are right, will that make you wrong? See everyone as whole and complete and having truth in their point of view. It's totally OK to be wrong. It means we have just learned something and at the same time we can let go of an idea that we believed true but wasn't.


When you let go of the ego, the attachment to an idea or way of being, to the part of you that wants to be right, imagine what you can let into all that now empty space. This is a huge help with surrendering pieces of the ego and letting go of the smaller version of you to let the bigger, more divine version enter and recreate a wonderful life.


The need to be right or the feeling we have been wronged, our rigidity about a belief or fixation on an idea, not only gets in the way of expanding our knowledge and our lives, it can take a toll on us physically.  We are judging. We are locked into a belief system that can manifest as pain into our bodies. Much research proves that our Thought and emotions contribute to all sorts of physical challenges.  It is interesting that some people suffer from hearing loss because they were unwilling to hear something they needed to hear, or troubled with vision problems because they were unwilling to see something they needed to see. These people have then let go of these fears and emotions and regained full use of their senses. People who are bent over with back problems may realize that they are holding on to burdens they could not let go of, then stand up straight and pain free once they let that burden go. These are Miracles.


Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world, same world, this  is a quote from Wayne Dyer. Assume everyone is a loving person, even if they are not showing it in the moment. Operate and live in that world because what happens in your inner world creates your outer world. Also, people tend to raise themselves up to the expectation of those they associate with. 


If your always feeling that people aren't appreciating you, you will always attract people not appreciating you. You will always be seeking appreciation, and it will always show up as not enough appreciation, not enough respect, not enough whatever. Even when appreciation is being heaped on you like crazy, you won't absorb it. You won't notice it. You won't appreciate that you are being appreciated. You inner world creates your outer world. If you get into a mind set of, I've got so much, I've got so much, you are going to attract so much more. When you appreciate what you have, you are going to feel better instantly, and even more blessings will come into your life

 








Childhood

We all grow up and develop doubts, fears, insecurities, and limiting ways of thinking. Many of these patterns develop naturally as we grow up. Many of them we learn through osmosis, our childhood environment. The bottom line is, we are living our lives based on a lineage of emotionally messed up people who were doing the best they could to keep us alive and to not mess us up as much as their parents messed them up.


You can forgive the people who hurt you. Not because they deserve it, but because you deserve the peace. You can forgive yourself if you need to. If we don't work on these stories from our  past, they continue to shape us as adults. 


When you change inside the outer world also changes.. Everything that happens to us has a gift and a price. The gift is well worth the price of the pain of learning, but we don't need to continue paying the price forever. It's just an event that occurred in time, but if we don't let go and we carry it with us, it messes up our life, we keep paying a price, and we may never get the gift. 


When we leave one relationship, we often attract another one that's very similar, because we attract what we most need to push our buttons, so we can work through those issues. Until we get it, until we work through those issues, they return.  ***If you want to attract different people and different situations into your life, you need to let go of your hot buttons/triggers. We attract into our lives what we most desire and what we most fear, or watered down version  of the two combined.


As long as you hold on to the story, you will keep suffering. And even if you can find the gifts and the blessings, if you are still in pain when you look back at that event that happened, then you are still paying the price. You don't need to pay the price. You can let go and get to a neutral or peace about any situation in life. You can let go of the pain, the hurt, the resentment, the anger, and get to peace with it.


That doesn't mean what happened is acceptable. If you were mistreated, you don't want to keep allowing that. But it does mean that you can find acceptance with the historical fact that it took place in your life. You can forgive. You can let go, and let it go and move on without carrying the weight of that experience around with you. 

Leave behind the bitterness, the anger, the shame, the guilt, and the sadness. It's time to move forward. You are a piece of the Divine. It's power flows through you. 

The same power that created the entire Universe lives in you. You can have and be and do it all. 


Just keep feeling whatever feelings come up without trying to make them go away, without trying to analyze them, without judgement. Just letting those feelings fully and completely be there. Keeping our attention on the most intense part, and keep sending love to it. All is for a greater good. You have the power to write your own new life story. Let's get started! 


You Are Loved

We all want love. Yet we often forget that the ultimate source of love is within us. The more love you feel for yourself, the more other people will naturally love you and gravitate towards you. If you surrender the feeling of "neediness" of having love, love will come easily. You won't be fighting to get it, chasing it, pushing it away when you get it. It will be readily available. You will be happy. You will feel loved.


This is how abundance works: One area affects all areas. And love Abundance especially impacts health, wealth, time, everything. You have massive control and massive influence over what you have and how much. But your emotional and energetic blocks, though able to be released, can restrict the amount of good stuff that flows into your life.

Successful Relationships

Rules:

1. Make yourself happy first. When you pay attention to both your internal and external  envioinments, you increase your level of happiness, which increases the happiness of those around you.


2. I'm upset because of me, not because of you. It's my fault I'm upset, and it's their fault that they are upset. It's easy to blame other people for our upsets, but the real healing comes when we take ownership of it. The key is realizing it's not the other person who is upsetting me, it's me. The upset is somewhere deep inside, and that other person is just the catalyst that helps me to see that hot button so I can heal it. Underneath the anger, we are just hurt. It is our stuff to work through and release. 


3. Be honest, even when it's hard. It's tough to do. We don't want to rock the boat. We don't want to hurt someone's feelings. I don't want to feel the guilt for hurting their feelings . But if we hurt someone's feelings, often it's because we have hit one of their buttons, something they need to heal. We can't take responsibility for someone else's feelings. 


Would you rather be happy, or do you want the truth?  If the truth upsets me, that's my fault. 


4. Be respectful, even when you are mad.

Always treat the other person with respect. Sometimes you don't have any control. That button is being pushed. You want to say, !!!!!. So how do you remain peaceful when you are angry? Communication is either an expression of love or an expression of fear, and expressing fear is really a cry for help. These cries for help take the form of yelling, anger, or sadness. And when someone is yelling at you, it's easy to get defensive. Basically we answer a cry for help with another cry for help. But if you tune into the other person's hurt and look for the positive intent in whatever they were doing, you can usually work through it, or at least come to a place of peace within yourself.


When you are feeling hurt or upset, if you can realize and own that it's your own upset regardless of what the other person did, you can work through it with the Peace technique. But in the heat of the moment, simply remember that this is somebody you love, somebody you care about. All situations can be resolved if both people are willing. 


5. Do your best with all the above.

We are human. We make mistakes. We get upset. We forget we really are divine, loving beings. We are insecure bundles of hot buttons just waiting to be triggered.  You have got to forgive yourself for being a human and making mistakes. But if you are willing to learn from your mistakes and take responsibility for your upsets and your reactions, it makes for a much cleaner, happier relationship.


One thing we need to accept is that people are not going to show up exactly the way we would like them to. In reality, the love or approval or respect you have been trying to get all your life, you may be receiving but they are not giving it in the way you want it. We often push away what we are needy for. 


One of the biggest secrets to live Abundance in any relationship is to give more. Give without worrying about what you will get back. But the need for things to be fair for us is a sickness, because our minds will always be on the lookout for how we might not be getting enough compared to other people. Things can't always be fair. Don't play that game.  


Give from strength and love. Don't worry about it being fair to you. Don't worry about things being fair to other people. Just give; you will be amazed at how it will open your heart and how much more abundance flows into your life. 




Modes of Communication

So much of how open or closed your heart is to love is a result of all that happened with your parents as you were growing up. To help open your heart, find a quiet place and imagine you were raised by totally perfect parents. They always loved you. They said and did everything you wished they would. And they never did anything you wished they haven't done. Imagine how much you would love these perfect parents that loved you so perfectly. If you really take the time to imagine it, it feels so good, doesn't it? So open. So free.

  Now imagine that your heart stays wide open as you realize that even though your mother and father didn't say and do all those things it was because they were dealing with their own messed up stuff from their own messed up parents. And because parents, who have responsibilities in addition to your well being, no matter how perfect, possess finite resources of time and energy to fulfill the Infinite desire for attention that children have. It's time to forgive them and love them even more. In most cases our parents had it harder than we did. For the most part our parent's generation was raised by less aware parents. What if the truth is that your real mom and dad were your perfect mom and dad? The ones you needed to grow the way you have grown, the ones who helped you to get stronger, be more compassionate, and learn the lessons you needed to learn to become the person you are today. 

  Now imagine loving your real mom and dad without any of the hurt, anger, upsets, or resentments. Notice how great that feels. You can forgive your mom and dad for all the things that prompted you to build protective walks around your feelings and around your heart. You can let those walls go. You don't need protection anymore because you are trying to protect yourself from your feelings. You don't need to be protected from your feelings. You are powerful. You are strong. You can feel your feelings. You can feel your anger. You can feel your rejection, your shame. You can feel all of it. Whatever you need to feel, you are strong enough. And love your parents as much as you can, not for their sakes, but for your own, because the more you can love them, the more you can love yourself, your partner, your friends, and the world. 

  You actually had the perfect friends growing up.  They were the ones to give you the lessons you most needed to become the person you are becoming. 

  Our ultimate power comes from working on ourselves, because when we work on ourselves, everyone else changes.


To Open Your Heart

So much of how open or closed your heart is to love is a result of all that happened with your parents as you were growing up. To help open your heart, find a quiet place and imagine you were raised by totally perfect parents. They always loved you. They said and did everything you wished they would. And they never did anything you wished they haven't done. Imagine how much you would love these perfect parents that loved you so perfectly. If you really take the time to imagine it, it feels so good, doesn't it? So open. So free.

  Now imagine that your heart stays wide open as you realize that even though your mother and father didn't say and do all those things it was because they were dealing with their own messed up stuff from their own messed up parents. And because parents, who have responsibilities in addition to your well being, no matter how perfect, possess finite resources if time and energy to fulfill the Infinite desire for attention that children have. It's time to forgive them and live them even more. In most cases our parents had it harder than we did. For the most part our parent's generation was raised by less aware parents. What if the truth is that your real mom and dad were your perfect mom and dad? The ones you needed to grow the way you have grown, the ones who helped you to get stronger, be more compassionate, and learn the lessons you needed to learn to become the person you are today. 

  Now imagine loving your real mom and dad without any of the hurt, anger, upsets, or resentments. Notice how great that feels. You can forgive your mom and dad for all the things that prompted you to build protective walks around your feelings and around your heart. You can let those walls go. You don't need protection anymore because you are trying to protect yourself from your feelings. You don't need to be protected from your feelings. You are powerful. You are strong. You can feel your feelings. You can feel your anger. You can feel your rejection, your shame. You can feel all of it. Whatever you need to feel, you are strong enough. And love your parents as much as yiu can, not for their sakes, but for your own, because the more you can live them, the more you can live yourself, your partner, your friends, and the world. 

  You actually had the perfect friends growing up.  They were the ones to give you the lessons you most needed to become the person you are becoming. 

  Our ultimate power comes from working on ourselves, because when we work on ourselves, everyone else changes.


You Are So Loved

You are so loved, that love is far greater than you will probably ever know. We always had an unlimited supply of love available to us, streaming down and shining on us even though we didn't let it all in. 

  ******You can only experience the amount of love from the universe and from people you care about, in proportion to how much you are willing to give yourself and accept for yourself.****** The entire creation is just trying to shower so much love in you life.  

  Remember all fears are fears of feelings, and if we can be with our feelings, have the courage to feel our feelings instead of stuffing them down, hiding them in the closet, or distracting ourselves, we can heal. Just realizing you are trying to run from the feeling is huge. When you realize you are trying to run, tell yourself, I'm trying to run from this thing; let me work on this. I surrender. I will find where the feeling is most intense. I will be present to it. I will send it love. 

  Soothe yourself. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Care about yourself. Take care of yourself. Forgive yourself.

  Give up the need to be perfect, and love yourself in all your imperfect glory. Love yourself even though sometimes you feel angry. Love yourself even though sometimes feel weak and powerless. 


We Have All The Time In The World.

Time is the canvas on which your entire life is painted. Time is even more valuable that money. If you spend money you can make it back, but you can never get your time back. And that stresses us out. Most people don't have enough time. They feel worried, hurried and overwhelmed.  They are constantly fighting for a little bit of extra time. But when they find a bit of free time, they don't know what to do with it, and they look for ways to entertain themselves to fill the void. Your life is your time!


If you want to increase the quality of your life, you need to increase the quality of how you spend your time. First you want to make sure you are doing more and more of the things you enjoy. Set yourself up so you are doing mostly things you absolutely love. Do work you love, spend your time with people you love, and do things you really enjoy. The second piece is how you are doing your activities. If you are stressed about time and your not present to the time you are doing what you love, your missing the point. The idea is to control your time so you are doing what you want to do when you want to do it. And to be present, be in the moment. That way, while you are doing whatever activities you are doing, you are enjoying them. Of course, you can't always do the things you love. Still you don't have to miserable. When you are engaged in an activity you don't love, you still have the option to change how you feel about that activity, to be present, so you can enjoy whatever you are doing.


One of the reasons we become overwhelmed is that we have so much to do. In our personal lives and at work, we have so many demands in our time that we start believing the lie that there is not enough time, and we start using this belief to defend ourselves from other obligations. Its time to let that go. Those kinds of thoughts create stress. When you are stressed, you are not enjoying your life, and not doing your best work.

Keys To Abundance


  Even though we think we have so many things we need to do, there is only one thing your doing right now. It's all you can do. Be in that moment. People do their best work when they feel centered, focused, guided, and connected to Source.


2. Develop patient timelines. Give yourself more time to complete projects than you think you need. You also want to balance priorities. In that case, if you need help, then see if you can get it. You don't need to be in a place of crazy, pressure cooker, insane stress. Develop patient timelines in your personal life too. Think about building in a buffer time. 


3. Love everything You Do. If you focus on doing what you live, whatever it is, you are not going to be in a rush to get through it, because you are enjoying it. Also, strengthen your strengths. Redistribute tasks you are not good at, or do not love.

Also, look for deeper meaning in doing tasks you cringe at. You can become present while you are doing it. 


4. Upgrade your energy sources. Some people get energy by arguing, creating drama, by putting themselves in situations where they are constantly needed, some use drugs like caffeine or eating sugar. These sources of energy cone at a high cost. Instead upgrade your energy with high quality food and water, exercising and a great nights sleep, enabling you to be inspired, feel creative, get present and be guided. Being guided is the ultimate energy source.  

  People draw on all kinds of negative energy sources, because they are not doing what brings them joy, and they need a way to fuel themselves. The energy from adrenaline can make us feel alive. Fear can be a big driver. 

  Then there are those people who pull energy from others. Here are 4 ways people try to steal energy in relationships. They are control dramas: The intimidators steal energy from others by threat, which makes people feel weaker and the intimidator stronger. Interrogators steal energy by judging and questioning. They grill others to prove them wrong. Aloof people act reserved or withdraw, an internal I'm too good for you, so others have to work hard (give energy) to get their attention. Then there are those who work the "poor me" strategy,making others feel guilty and responsible for them. 

  ***If we are relying on some of these dirtier forms of energy, it will impact the enjoyment we feel with anything we do. It affects how powerful we are in any given moment, and how effective we are in whatever we are doing. 


Time warps: Often when people are always busy and extremely driven, there's something emotional they are trying to avoid, an unresolved issue or feeling they don't want to face. We have got to notice what's really going n under our busyness. Fear of missing out, fear of boredom, fear of Letting people down, those are some if the unconscious drivers of busyness.

  Slowing down how we do things and how we live our lives actually speeds up the time it takes to get the results we want. 


Renewable energy sources: Getting to that place where time warps, where your energy comes from a place of peace and heightened Intuition, you will not only need to draw on positive energy sources, you will also need to know how you recharge. Notice where you get energy around people. Do you get more energy in crowds or do you get more energy being alone? 

  Pay attention to the emotions that drain you, and those you give you clean energy. 



The more you resolve these draining emotions, the cleaner, lighter, and brighter your energy will be. You will have more power and you will experience emotions that raise your energy, love, joy, peace passion, devotion, gratitude and inspiration. 

  Start thinking about what you can build into your environment or your life that will inspire you and allow you to feel more gratitude, more peace, more joy. What can you do to activate these outer higher level emotions? Who can you surround yourself with?

  You can make these changes. You can increase your joy, the quality of your time abundance, time you fill with doing what you love, surrounded by people who uplift you. You are infinitely powerful.


Success Is Inevitable. Anything you want, you can have. You just have to:

1. Decide what you want, and

2. Decide to have it, be it, or do it.

Becoming a millionaire isn't a goal it is a decision. 


One Step at a Time. Here's a key to setting goals: break them down into milestones that challenge you without seeming unreachable. This is the way you don't get discouraged and you stay motivated. Success follows a continuum. Each step builds on the one before.  Success is inevitable if you are willing to don't the work in the world, if you're willing to do try he work in yourself, and if you never give up. You have to learn alit, and grow alit, and that takes time. But you can speed things up tremendously. Much of what we really want is available instantly by practicing more gratitude. 

1. Take action to make it happen, and keep taking action until you get what you want. 

2. Work in yourself to release the fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs that might be holding you back.

3. Use the Peace technique.


There more you go after your dreams, the more you will fail, because failure is also inevitable. In fact, that's the only way to achieve success. You have to go through the failures to a achieve great success. Failures are the bricks that pave the way to success. The biggest successes are often the people who are willing to take risks and fail the most. You will never truly know yourself or the strength of your relationships until both have been tested by adversity. Surrendering your "needs" are turning points to success. 

  Celebrate your failures! Pat yourself on the back for trying. Acknowledge the hidden gifts in these experiences. If you can learn from it or laugh about it, it's all worth it. 

  The challenge is that most of us have mixed feelings about what we want. Also when we want something, and we are also afraid if it, we pull it partway towards us, but keep it at arms length. Blocking fears, limiting beliefs, and rigid ways if you thinking put a link in our receiving Abundance. When you get to a place of Peace you can receive more of the good things you want in life. So many amazing things happen when you are at peace, when you let go of the "charge" or "trigger" that's keeping the things you want from happening, and when you have the courage to step up despite any fears. The biggest block may be of letting go of the fear of getting the things you want. The only mystery to success us tune, how long is it going to take to be successful? 


You are Infinitely powerful, infinitely creative and infinitely resourceful. But we get indoctrinated into the world if scarcity. There isn't enough time. There isn't enough money. Love can be withdrawn at any moment. We develop limiting beliefs about ourselves. We restrict ourselves from being all we could be. We forget our infinite selves. You can heal yourself commit to healing you blocks. Start now. 

  We all push away what we want most in life. We all have blocks to getting what we want. We can get past them. If you let yourself relax and surrender to the amazing power that is within us all, you will experience more and more magic and Miracles coming into your life. And each fear we surrender to heals so much of ourselves. The Peace technique clears layers of fears and makes way for Miracles. 

  Playing to our strengths is crucial. It's what brings us joy, taps into what we are here to do. For our weaknesses we can assign the task to someone who is great at at and who loves it. 

  When you screw things up, it's so easy to think, "There is something wrong with me", and be ashamed, and to take that one problem and extend it to our whole life. It is important to find your strengths and strengthen them. Get better at the things you are good at. 

  You have a big destiny, much bigger than you can see, much bigger than you realize. You are here to serve, heal, live, support, uplift, and inspire others. You wouldn't be reading this otherwise. You wouldn't be doing all you could to be the best you can be, to create the best life possible. Because when you create that life, it uplifts others too. Your destiny is to inspire lots of people just by who you are and who you are becoming. And with a big destiny cones a big responsibility. People need you. You are needed. You can have the life you want, the relationship you want, the success you want. You just have to stick with it. And you have to be willing to start small to get big.  

  You don't have to have all the answers. All that matters is that you want to play big and lead a bigger life. You just have to get in the game. You don't have to have all the answers, because you never will. Get comfortable with "I don't know". You don't need to know. Then  the more comfortable you are with not knowing, the mirw you just figure it out, and the answers come. Trust that the answers will come. Trust in yourself. Surrender to the process. Make room for Miracles.

  Keep checking your progress. Write down what's changed for you, whether you feel different, and how you feel different. What's possible for you now? What's your vision for success? What do you want to achieve next from here? What are you most looking forward to? What are you most excited about now? 

  You have a powerful Spirit inside you, and nothing can stop that spirits expansion but you. Noithing can keep you from anything you want, except you. Everything you want in life is trying to get into your llfe. Happiness and success are trying to get in, just by your mere desire for them. Dream big. Commit to sticking with it. And be ready to receive the Miracles that await you.